Kirk Ouimet

I ran across this thought from one of my favorite motivational speakers, Tony Robbins:

To make your relationship work, give what you most want to receive in that relationship. If you want respect, then give respect. If you want love, then give TONS of love. If you want passion then give TONS of passion. Don’t say “Well if they would be passionate with me, then I’d get excited about my relationship.” Be passionate first!

If you are willing to come from the place where your job is to give that what you want, you are going to find that you will receive back in your relationship all the things you want. Stay out of the trap that says “Well you do it first and then I’m willing to commit as well.”